three a.m thoughts

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WHAT PEOPLE THINK WE GRIEVE 

• The person we lost

WHAT WE ACTUALLY GRIEVE

• All the moments they’re missing 

• The memories that can no longer be made 

• The love that can no longer be expressed 

• The empty chair at the dinner table 

• The happy moments we long to share with them 

• The sad moments we wish we could lean on them for 

• The phone calls that will never happen again 

• The conversations that now linger silently in the spaces between our thoughts 

• Our life before they left 

• All the future plans we made 

• The person we lost

-ʚɞ..LadyB..ʚɞ

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